According to God, the nirvana of budhists and hindus, the pure peace, the absolute blissfullness of God`s Void, these are the true heaven following the Death of flesh, after our life of relativity.
The growth is for us flesh folk. The joys and sorrows are the ying yang, the sweet and sour right here right now on earth. We either dig it while were here or we miss the opportunity (sorry if your childhood was tough).

Nice ying yangen with you folks. See ya.