A poster who will remain nameless would eat his heart out right now, you know that, don't you? haha i figured you were posting to eg, but i remember you worried early on that i had a propensity to be misleading, and i was hoping you recalled too that i appreciate the 'checks and balances' you offer. i'm not really that sensitive - especialy with posts. no offense, but these are virtual people, as am i to them, and life is too busy with face-to-face interrelationships to maintain to worry about what a person says in one moment in time which, once said, might result in a change of that person's stance, but there it still is, the word in frozen pixels. whatcha gonna do? you have my esteem, worry not, BROTHER. heehee just kidding. you don't need another dysfunctional family member, right?